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This sudden change in a couple's relationship is reported quite a bit by individuals who have just broken up with
a significant other. Unfortunately, it leaves the person who has been "dumped" with feelings of low self-esteem,
regret, inadequacy and anger.
If both people feel a strong enough level of attraction continues to exist after a few dates, they usually move along to
stage two. However,Air Jordan Flight 9, if one finds the other has unattractive characteristics or behaviors, this can lead to an abrupt change
in the relationship.
We had been dating for 6 months. We shared the same interests, felt very at ease together, had (often)
discussed future plans and had even spent some of the holidays together. Our relationship seemed right on track
and just right in general.
In a way, this is the easy one. We are unknowns to each other. Things progress from this point or they do not. Hurt
feelings are minimal. We usually chalk up rejection to; "I'm not his type". There is no need to analyze or wonder
what went wrong.
Probably.
So, how can you know what the problem was and hope to avoid a repeat of this hurtful experience? You can do this
by examining your failed relationship and gaining insight and understanding about what just wasn't right between you.
How an individual handles their changing feelings and resultant behavior toward the other is a subject for another article.
Attraction
Now think about this - What if your relationship wasn't what you thought it was? What if unspoken issues had
existed all along? What if there were signs you chose to ignore or just didn't see? Are any of these possible?
In order to assist you with this; I am providing a basic framework of the relationship stages a couple must pass
through TOGETHER in order to get to a place of shared intimacy and commitment. If either person's feelings
change before, during or after one of these stages; it is not necessarily the "fault" of the other individual. It is simply
a statement about the individuals' rightness (or not) for each other. It is also a reflection of each individual’s relationship
readiness and ability to handle long-term, committed intimacy.
Does the above scenario sound at all familiar? If so, you can relate to being confused and stunned over the sudden
change in a boyfriend's/girlfriend's behavior.
What happened? What did I do? I don't know what to think.
Then, without warning, he said he "needs some time to think and figure things out." He stopped calling and rarely
returned my calls. When he did, I was often met with silence on the other end of the line. When I asked "what
happened", I just got a verbal run around of excuses about how busy he is and/or how much stress he is under
right now.
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Everything was great.
Relationships have stages. We have all read articles and books by authors who have come up with their own unique
number or names for these. I will try to take a very basic approach to this and keep it simple and as universal as
possible.
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This is the first stage. It is physical, intellectual and emotional - on a very surface level. Girl sees boy and vice versa. They
flirt, talk and get a very basic sense of the other. They are usually responding to a physical pull. He/she is cute,
funny, charming,Nike Jordan 11 Shoes, interesting to talk to, etc.
Without attraction,Air Jordan V.2 Grown Sneaker, first dates wouldn't happen. It can therefore be assumed that the other person finds us attractive if
we have gotten to a first date.
Remember, these behaviors or characteristics would be ones that would manifest in the very early stage of dating.
Some examples: frequently late, never offers to pay, dresses or grooms sloppily, rude to waitress, etc.
There is often no real closure, as the couple is never able (willing) to talk through what went wrong or was never right
with their relationship.