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Wysłany: Sob 10:12, 26 Mar 2011 Temat postu: Causes of Marital Communication Breakdown and How |
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Having known the importance and place of communication- both verbal and expressed,- in a marriage and the signs to [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] out for, for breakdown of communication. It is important to know those things that bring about the situation that could lead to conflict in the home. The causes of breakdown in communication in the home are:
1. Lack of sincere forgiveness by partners.
2. Impatience, leading to over-reactions.
3. Constant nagging.
4. Sexual denial.
5. The use of unkind words on your partner.
6. Different educational level (and understanding).
7. Too busy with other things.
8. Long absence of a partner causing loss of intimacy.
9. Lack of courage/boldness.
10. Bottled emotions/anger/bitterness/frustration.
11. Constant intimidation.
12. Selfishness.
13. Use of past mistakes/failures.
14. Stubbornness/ Arrogance.
15. Taking marriage problems outside.
Communication is important to building a happy marital life and home. As such, great efforts must be made to ensure that both parties communicate freely in the home. To make communication easy and to avoid its breakdown,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the following acts should be practiced.
1. Playing together (Games, Occasional dance etc).
2. Talking/chatting together.
3. Praying together i.e pray for and with your spouse.
4. Bathing together.
5. Planning things together.
6. Sleeping together ( body odour,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], snoring, sleeping position)
7. Eating together.
8. Celebrating special dates.
9. Use a good sense of humour.
10. Be sensitive. Respond to your spouse's mood.
11. Do it for your partner (The nail cutting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], zipping the dress,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], removing the shoes, removing the [link widoczny dla zalogowanych]).
12. Accommodate your spouse's weakness.
13. Speak out on all issues bothering you. Use the right words, good tone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], good expression.
14. Give unexpected phone calls/ cards / notes/ gifts/ text messages.
15. Know and use your spouse's pet-name. Be fond of your spouse.
16. Be sincere always. When you agree or disagree,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], let it be. No pretence!
17. Show interest in your spouse undertakings.
18. Go out together.
19. Appreciate yourselves.
20. Periodic exchange of gifts and cards.
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